Sex Toy Buyer’s Guide
Good, bad or ugly, everyone has a sex life. So to complement the wide variety of sexual tastes, there are also a wide variety of sex toys and accessories. My guess is that if you are here checking out this buyer’s guide, you’re new to the idea of incorporating sex toys into your bedroom fun. Whether you are in a relationship or flying solo, this information will help you find the toy that is right for you. DildosDildos are your basic sex toys. Unlike vibrators, dildos (also known as dongs) generally don’t have any motors inside and therefore don’t vibrate. As you can imagine, they come in many shapes and sizes. Some are phallic (shaped like a penis) and others more discreet in their shape. Some are small and they continue up in size until you get into the really large category.Some dildos have suction cup bases so they stay in place during ‘sexy time.’ Others are double ended so that they can be used by lesbians or for simultaneous double penetration (vaginal and anal). Dildos are also a favorite among gay men as they generally have no added clitoral stimulators.
VibratorsVibrators are generally grouped into different classifications because they have different features and therefore different benefits. Here’s the breakdown.Traditional Vibrators
Clitoral Vibrators
Dual-Action Vibrators The rabbits are the most well known dual-action vibrators, but they are many different versions. The iRide vibrator is the newest toy to expand on the concept and so far, the reviews have been great.
G-Spot Vibrators
Male Masturbation SleevesMale masturbation sleeves are designed to mimic vaginal or anal penetration and oral sex depending on which model you buy. The sleeves are generally made with a soft, flexible material that feels like the real thing. The opening of the sleeves are generally molded to be lips, a vagina or an anus depending on your preference.In addition to masturbation, these sleeves are used by couples as intercourse bumper to prevent penetration from going to deep and becoming painful. Women also use them at the end of oral sex because these sleeves will ‘swallow’ if she doesn’t want to.
Penis PumpsPenis pumps are air-tight cylinders that are placed over the penis. Using the attached pumping mechanism, air is drawn out of the cylinder to create a vacuum inside. This pressure increases blood volume in the penis creating a fuller, more erect penis.
Anal Toys and PlugsAnal plugs and toys are designed for internal anal pleasure. Butt plugs are usually shaped with a tip and tapered end so that they can stay inserted. Anal toys and vibrators come in different shapes and sizes but if you’re new to anal play, you start small and work your way up. The three most important things you’ll need to enjoy anal sex are lube, lube and more lube!
Couples’ ToysCouples toys are designed to please both partners and come in all different shapes and sizes, and are used in different ways. Cock rings are generally applied to the man and offer clitoral stimulation during intercourse. The We Vibe is a unique vibrator that is worn while making love. One portion goes inside the vagina for internal stimulation for both partners while the other portion remains outside for clitoral stimulation for her.
LubricantsThere are a variety of different types of lubricants. Which one is right for you?Choosing the right lubricant will ensure the most comfortable sexual experience for you while at the same time preserving the life of your sex toys. The following is just “the basics” for selecting a lubricant; refer to all of the lubricants Xandria sells for more information on each type. Does the type of lube make a difference? The answer is yes – selecting the right lubricant for your needs and your toy’s needs is essential. Depending on the material your toy is made of, choosing the wrong lubricant can actually damage your toy. Water-based lubricants are ideal for use with any sex toy. Silicone lubricants should not be used on silicone or Cyberskin toys – the combination might actually cause your toy to melt or misshapen. Petroleum or oil-based lubes should not be used in the vagina to prevent the growth of the bacteria that causes yeast infections. You’ve made your choice; now what? Before using a lubricant for the first time, you should test a small amount – for example, a pea-sized drop – by applying it directly to the toy as well as to your own skin to see if there is a reaction. If there are no side effects, you will definitely want to coat both the lubricant and yourself before inserting the toy. This is especially important for products entering the anus. Add more lube when needed during your sex play. One neat thing about water-based lubricants is it can be reactivated by just a small amount of water. Some men and women keep a small spray water bottle by their bedside for this purpose. All done, what’s next? Most lubes, especially water-based ones, will wipe off your body easily with only a damp cloth. To clean your toy, wipe off any excess lubricant and then clean your toy as usual.
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